this lay be slightly off topic and i apologise if it is but my little one has trouble sleeping, shes 4 and just takes forever to get to sleep... i was thinking about buying her a huge teddy bear to make her feel safe and protected because i wonder if it is something to do with that- found some cool ones here http://justteddybears.stores.yahoo.net/reallybigbears.html  and here http://www.twenga.com/price-huge-teddy-bear.html  but i wanted to know if there were specific ones that they sell with lavender or something inside them to aid sleep? if not is lavender the best thing to stuff inside it to help her relax??
and if anyone has any other suggestions or is going through/went through the same thing id love to hear some of your advice, this bear
thing really is just my first idea and im not sure that i have a plan b, c or d...